We need more info for the father's out there that do the right thing by their children but still get the raw end of the system.. i would like more info on this. good looking out
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Im going back to court in Oct..I need more money...
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Why you need more money?
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My child is going to a private school.. there are expenses...uniforms..shoes...tuition...etc..and after care so that I can handle my biz at work and school...why must I foot the bill for everything and for OUR child....
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a support of a child goes a long way then just money..when say child support..its means daily and long term investment for the child.So when women/men ask for more its the understanding that it will benefit the child needs and not the parents personal needs...I really cant understand why a justice system have tell parents what n how they are raised their children...as parents we should have a clear understanding of what n how we want our children to be raised..and we shouldnt have to be told..that...but we parents are so caught up in our own feelings about one another that we forget anything that we are doing is to benefit the childs needs n not ours....
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That is beautiful you can show progessive needs that should be entilted for an increase. Before you went there you Tried to do it on your own that is positive and you should be awarded . it is when a mother cries increase and has nothing to show why she warrants that increase.
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Oh lawd, risky comment but...I like when you say "treat child support like a 401k where you match the number the father is paying". Very good point - Father's "Pay Attention"! Fair is fair in love and war...
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Exactly for every gain there should be a given. Saving money is not the point but rather fair parenting.
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Please people remember child support goes well beyond the financial. If you ain’t got it you ain’t got it. However, there are other ways the “financially insufficient supporter” can assist in raising their child which will alleviate some if the monetary burden from the primary parent. (i.e. If you are not working at the moment eliminate the need for child care. If you find yourself swimming in food stamps offer to buy some food for the home in which you child stays. Most times all children want are Mommy or Daddy, their Mommy or Daddy. Give the primary parent some mental relief and take the little angel off their hands for a while.) All relationships involve compromise and now that you two share a child together you will find yourselves compromising your wants/needs even more. Be fair to one another, love one another, tolerate one another, you don’t have to like one another but it helps - for the sake of the child.
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That is very Deep Rashonda!!! However the prime Issue (something that people like Tonia has expressed Before) is parents use their children as pawns . Some women will not allow that bond with a father especially if he is a good father , alot of women tend to chase the father who does not care!
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